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Good-bye to Coney? Good-bye to Ruby's? The verdict isn't in yet (well the verdict may be in but the sentencing I guess is what still awaits us) - But I would be remiss if I didn't have at least one entry here that talks about the place I spend more time in the summer than anywhere else. It will take several more entries to fully say "fare thee well" to my favorite watering hole and my favorite Friday night activity 0f Fireworks on the beach in
The Borough,
Ok so I'm experimenting here with my own photo (yes I finally remembered to change the batteries) and now they are letting me put up a bit of video - so here it goes - the formatting may be off - but y'all are smart you can figure it out.
I must tell you first off, that I've been going to Coney Island since I was in diapers. In those days (early 70's) you didn't go at night, not unless you wanted to get mugged or raped. My father loved taking my brother and I there, and I remember being firmly (but lovingly) told that if I got wet on the flume, I'd have to spend the rest of the day wet, so it would "behoove me" to stay dry. It was the one place where dad would let us scream and run around like looney tunes, but he always made sure we knew it was confined to us being there. And I do remember being wet and itchy on that ride home - dad giving me that "I told you so" look.
As a young teenager (I want to say I was 12 or 13) the Coney Island Museum was still just a small sideshow on the boardwalk - and I was witness, by accident, to one of the first Mermaid Parades. Now don't ask me what street they were on (was it in the parking lot across from the Thunderbolt?) It's all kinda hazy now - I don't remember it well - only a vague remnant of people having fun dressing up. I thought they were wacky. In those days it wasn't on a set day, or as far as I can remember those first few years it didn't happen every year (I'll look for a link on the history, I'm sure Dick has one)
Okay I know, what does all of this have to do with the Bar - Ruby's.... I'm getting there - hold your horses...
When I came home from college I making my first run to the Cyclone for the year (I used to ride probably 40 times a summer, but less since they keep raising the cost)- I made my usual pilgrimage to the waters edge - then I stopped at what we called "the old mans bar" on the boardwalk. That was the beginning of the end for me - meeting Ruby for the first time that summer ('91), I was legal (something that had never been true before having hung out in bars since I was 14) and it quickly became a regular stop after riding the rides - I was even babysitting an unnamed individual, I was 23, she was 13 and I dragged her to the bar after we had both nearly been suffocated on the music express (or one of the rides that worked the same way- its starts going around and you are slammed to the outside holding on for dear life).
So it has been until the new millenium, I don't remember exactly when Ruby died, but I expressed my grieving with various patrons that year I think it was 2001. (more fact checking jeeesh), probably every time I was there for the season - it had become a favorite hangout for me and the sadness that surrounded everyone helped me. Being a part of something like that, having smiles and familiar faces - people who knew you for a split second and really knew you. A alot of bad things happened that year, and I wasn't having the best time I can honestly say that Ruby's saved my life.
The last 6 or 7 years they have been shooting off fireworks on Friday nights, and it has been a regular happy hour excursion - with any number of friends joining me for a drink (or 5) some greasy coney food and a walk on the beach - awaiting the sky to light up like the 4th of July!, (only better, since you can sit under them almost!).
I have a multitude of stories about the people I've met while sitting and having a beer and some clam strips - the fisherman who is being harassed by homeland security, the guys who travel down from the Bronx and consider gong to Coney "getting away" for the weekend, the tourists who try to eat food bought at Nathans at a Ruby's table, and somewhat yokel locals who have family reunion (including a guy in a wheelchair) every Friday night - it's a real patchwork of young people, old-timers looking like they just rolled out of the 80's and 90's east village, complete with tattoos and attitude, our Hispanic friends who chose Ruby's over cha-cha's (crap hole next door, next to shoot the freak) - but we all have one thing in common - a love for cheap beer and endless summers. Beer the great equalizer.....
I know big changes are happening (see my link for the development in
The Borough) and part of me wants it to stay as the same decrepit and shabby place its been in my lifetime - but I know change is inevitable - I just hope something remains.
Now most of you would think that for me, the changes would be a definite vote in favor of "getting the hell out of dodge" - and its a biggie - but I'm holding out to see what happens - I still have faith in the locals to do what is best for them and the community - but beware - I have a feeling there will be no place left in the world to "Shoot The Freak" and get away with it.
For more on the hot-bed issues, check my link (on the side) for development in The Borough, and http://www.myspace.com/saveconeyisland which, if you get to the right side of the screen, has actions you can do.
*My* bartender Frankie was interviewed recently for NyMag online - here is the link! http://nymag.com/daily/food/2007/07/frank_gluska_of_rubys_wont_be_1.html